Have you ever stopped to wonder if that guy you’re interested in sees you as something more than just a friend? There are ways to know that don’t involve awkward questions and potentially embarrassing moments for the both of you, and all it takes is a little attention to details. The way he acts, talks and dresses all contain hints about his feelings for you, and all you have to do is pick them up.
Pay attention to his behavior. Most men will be on best behavior around the women they are interested in. Is he particularly polite, well spoken and gentle when you’re around? Make sure it isn’t his standard behavior. Observe him in a variety of situations and subtly ask his friends about his general behavior and if that changes when he’s around you. Another very important thing to pay attention to is his conduct during conversations. Does he tend to agree with the things you say or take interest in the things you are talking about? In that case, you might very well be on to something.
Take notice of his appearance. Needless to say, most of us want to look our best when meeting the people we are interested in, and chances are the guy you like is no exception. Pay attention to the way he dresses and if you notice that he’s getting consistently concerned with his appearance whenever you meet, chances are that you’re the reason he’s doing it. You can try complimenting the way a shirt or jacket looks on him, and if he starts wearing it more often than before, you’ll have a pretty strong indicator that your opinion matters to him.
Just because he is way into his looks does not mean that he is a weakling and lacks self confidence but just that he is nervous and men can’t resist from inadvertently looking foolish in front of a beautiful girl, which is only too natural during a first date and giving a nice compliment about his looks and dress sense will definitely ease things up immensely, which you can find on the okcupid dating app and rehearse it thoroughly before the meeting.
Are you seeing him more often? Is he more eager to join get-togethers that he knows you’ll be attending or do you happen to run into him in places you didn’t know he frequented? He might be looking for reasons to see you. When we like somebody, all we want to do is look for opportunities to be around them, however they might present themselves. That includes taking a detour on our way home that involves passing by your workplace, or hanging out with a group of people we don’t usually hang out with in order to be able to see or talk to the person we like. So if you’re seeing more of this guy than you normally would, odds are there’s a good reason for that, and the reason might very well be you.
Recognize date potential. There are many ways for a guy to ask you out on a date. Most guys want to be sure that when they do ask you out, your answer will be yes, so in order to avoid rejection, there will usually be a lot of preliminary testing of where they stand. Alternatively, depending on their personality and experience, some guys just won’t know how to ask you, so you have to be prepared to recognize the hints he is throwing and act accordingly. If during the course of a conversation he mentions a forthcoming event that he’d like to participate in, he might want to ask you to go with him. If he casually invites a group of people to do something and specifically tells you he’d love for you to go, or singles you out in any way, its obvious where his interest lies and you should take notice of that.
Reading the hints isn’t very hard at all, and with a little bit of attention and intuition, it can pave the way to a happy relationship.